Question:

My husband and I live in a four family building. Our neighbor who is around the same age as I, 26,?
tends to only speak to my husband. There's nothing for me to be jealous of but I think it's direspectful. One day he left me in the car while he went back in the house to get something and returned twenty minutes later. I found out weeks later that he was talking to her the whole time. Should I be upset or what?

Answers:

A-Best: eh...it's kinda weird it lasted that long, but some women are chatters and if he's a nice guy, he probably didn't want to just jet out. I'd talk to my man and see what he thinks about her... maybe she was venting. open communication clears confusion.  

A: He kept you waiting 20 minutes and you didn't check on him!!!!!! You should have waited 4 minutes and checked to see if he had had a heart attack. Then when you saw them talking you could have said "why are you talking to that bimbo". Heck in 20 minutes they could have had sex.  

A: I would ask him if anythings going on, but dont make it seem like your accusing him of something. I would keep a close eye on this situation. If I had a female that only talked to my boyfriend I would be upset and wonder too. So just ask about it. I hope nothing bad turns out.  

A: Ha Ha, girl you a fool for sitting in the car for 20 minutes. What did you think it took him 20 minutes to get, the refrigerator. It took him 5 to seduce her 10 to screw her and 5 to clean up and get whatever he left  

A: Jello wrestling. It solves every woman-on-woman dispute.  

A: why are you asking us if you should be upset or not? even a child know his /her emotion ask yourself this! Do you have reason to?  

A: The only problem that I see is that if he lied to you when you asked him what took him so long. If my husband told me that he got caught up talking to our female neighbor, I would roll my eyes and ask what they talked about. If he lied to me we would have a huge problem.  

A: I don't think you need to be upset. I'm sure your husband is just trying to be a good neighbor. Tell him it bothers you and judge your response off of that.  

A: He is sleeping with her watch him  

A: I really am worried for you. I lost my partner to my best friend in similar circumstances. There are a couple of sayings that come to mind: 1. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, its a duck. 2. Familiarity breeds contempt. (This means that someone who is close to you is more likely to treat you in a bad manner). If your intuition is telling you something's wrong, trust it. Your husband may not be initiating this "friendship," but his ego may be reacting to the interest she's displaying. I would definitely be careful.  

A: yes, you should be concerned that woman probably likes your husband I had a friend and her husband started talking to the neighbor all the time they found each other at the laundromat ,halls he ended up divorcing my friend and getting together with the neighbor becareful keep your eyes open  

A: this one time i'd cut him some slack, but i would be ticked off that she was watching while you got in the car and then she distracted him--to flirt of course.